Are men really from mars

Why is it that we women are so different from men? Is it really our emotions that become us that makes us so different? Are we letting society, the world as we know it put a wedge between women and men; and no ladies we are not talking about shoes here. That will come at a later date. We as Women are known for our emotional roller coasters, makeup, hair product, and fashion to society  We are indeed emotional creatures as are men they just have their own way of showing it.

I think that men do feel things that may be uncomfortable to them. They do feel things they just have their own way of showing it; and that is the key word here, showing. We women are very verbal about how we feel and what went on through the day. Men not so much, they are definitely showers and not tellers. They show through body language, facial expression and random acts.

We women need to pay more attention to how our men is acting instead of bitching about how insensitive they are. we need to remember they might saying something that is hurtful to us thinking its nothing because they are not good with words or timing at that. When we dress to impress don't ask him how you look, instead watch his facial expression.

Sometimes they are able to communicate but us women are always deep in thought or talking and not paying attention. For example my husband asked my to marry him 5 time outside of a theatre before I even heard him because I wouldn't shut up! I can promise you that this ruins his future sweet loving attempts. So when out on dates, car rides, or alone pay close attention to what he is saying and his body language and facial expressions. This will not only help you catch his sweet side but also show interest in him.

That's what men like just as we do; by showing interest in what he is saying we will make him happy, learn things about him, and encourage him to show his sweet side, which we women are always wanting to see. Doing these thing will help all around with our relationships. Always remember that they are human and will make mistakes and say the wrong thing from time to time. Just be patient with them.

Humm Dinger Vibrating Pleasure Ring Toy Review

 Well ladies... it's time for an adult product review. Today's post I am going to be reviewing Humm Dinger cock ring from Hottproducts. It's a lovely pink colored cock ring that has a small vibrating bullet. It has satisfaction ticklers for her pleasure, performance knots for him, and it is also waterproof. I bought this product at Priscilla's McCall; which is a lingerie store. They are somewhat expensive. The product it's self was inexpensive; only costing $3.95 before sales tax.

This is a fun toy for couples. It's easy to put on backwards in the dark so try to make sure the ticklers are facing away from him. It is sample so there is not much to be said about it. I will say this; its a opener toy for couples that are wanting to bring toys into playtime and never tried before; good first timer toy. I would turn the vibrator on until mid sex; it's really intense so make sure you are good and aroused first for maximum pleasure. If you turn it on from the get go it's going to prolong you Big O ladies so walk before you run.This toy only has a 40 minute life span; so it's a one time use. That's all I have to say about this toy. I give this toy a 4 out of 5 stars.

Enjoy Ladies

Sex with a side of pleasure

Sex... What is it to us beside a means to product? Lets get down to the nitty gritty. We do enjoy ourselves a lot, but why? Most of us fake our big O's and just pleasure ourselves when need be, but I mean if we are not reaching our climax then why do we like it still yet? Personally, I think we use sex to build our self esteem, don't we? Maybe it's that it feels good and we get so close, but then before we know it he get his. Well I think we should get more out of it.

I myself have had a problem in the past on reaching my Big O. I still enjoyed myself the fact that I could cause such an effect on someone. So it was mainly for self esteem purposes. Now I am older and learned a few tricks to not only boost my self esteem, but  have sexual relief in one and trust me when I say... its lovely. So without further due I will give you ladies tip and pointers.

• Love yourself in all forms. That means mind, and body. If your like me and find that hard to do start small. For example change you shampoo and/or body wash something that smells girly. Doll up everyday for your own satisfaction. At night wear those Pjs that make you feel pretty, then when you feel sexy, then spice up your normal daily activities. Like reading, painting your nails watching T.V. naked if you are chilling in your room damn it you should be naked, you will become more comfortable in you own skin.

• Take a look at what you got ladies. I know that there are women out there that have never got up close and personal with their vagina. You know who you are, yea I am sure you have got a glimpse at it before and looked at it for some health reason. No just grab you a hand held mirror and get to know her for no reason take you time and really see what you got that men love; do this often.

• Feel her up ladies. That's right nothing like solo time to learn and about your do's and don'ts. Find out what feels good to you by exploring your lovely vagina. For those ladies that just know the basic of sex and not the origins of the female orgasm then note this. Only 25% of women can orgasm through vaginal intercourse only. Most need clitoral stimulation. So test yourself see what feels good. Keep with your hands alone for awhile and then when you can pleasure yourself easily that's when you bring out the toys.

• Be his guide. When you have him to where you want him start out with heavy foreplay. Kissing, touching, and nibbling that is what is going to get us where we need to be to get our Big O during sex with our man. While having foreplay take what you have learned about your sexual self and tell him what to do. If your to shy still yet then take his hand and guide him with yours. Then if your to shy to guide him do pelvic movement, and moans to drop hints he is close or doing it right. The more he does it right the more you moan. 

Do all these steps and you will love your newly found sexual self and not only that your self esteem will sky rocket. It takes high self esteem and being comfortable in your on skin to get that Big O we crave. So Loving yourself is one of the most important steps to your sexual self I do hope that this helps you and good luck ladies feel free to talk to me about concerns. I will be happy to help in anyway I can.

Post to your needs

I am going to be posting about sex, the lies we women like to tell, drama of women's life, fashion, beauty, and love I'll be posting randomly for a little while until I get a good schedule going I hope you will love the posts I publish. You can make request and ask anything. Till the next post ladies.

OH and I'll also be posting adult product reviews